A Woman’s Emotions Is The Equalivant To Being On Drugs 

 “Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned” this saying means women frequently act quite furiously and viciously in response to anything that has wounded or angered them. Throughout time this quote has been proven to be true because when a woman is hurt their emotions take over like drugs. When people are on drugs they get this feeling that is the highest peak of being on the drugs and when a woman feels so strongly about something it’s the same peak feeling a person on drugs would have. This causes women to act out of character or do anything in their power to reach their goal rather that may be love or revenge. For example, whenever I’ve been involved with a young man and I feel betrayed or used I will go to any length so he feels what I have felt. Rather it may be me giving him a piece of my mind or doing something so outlandish I would be viewed as a person who needs to be in a mental facility. A woman’s intuition and her mind are a blessing and a curse. It can help them buffer through anything in life or it can persuade them to do something unhinged.

         This fairytale in tells of a maiden whose main desire in life was to be taken care of and married. So her father gives her hand in marriage to a suitor who is believed to be very rich and charming. But the maiden had this negative feeling every time she looked and thought about him this feeling disgusted her. He tells her to visit his home but while on her way to his the feeling that she has begins to grow the closer she gets to his home. When she arrives a bird tells her this is a murderers home and to go away. But she insists on going inside and as she enters it’s empty she stumbles into the cellar an old woman who is the cook for the home tells her that her fate will be death if she is to marry the suitor.  Robbers emerge and the maiden watches as this girl is drugged, stripped then killed. One of the robbers cut off the girl’s finger and it flies into the maiden’s shirt. The old woman then feeds and drugs the robbers so they fall asleep then she and the maiden run away back to the maiden’s mill. On the day of the wedding, the bride tells everyone at the table what she has seen then pulls the finger out and lays it on the table. As everyone gasps, the robbers and groom try to run away but they are brought to justice. 

       This shows a woman’s intuition has saved her life. The maiden had a negative feeling about the suitor ever since she led eyes on him but because he looked on paper she ignored his red flags and almost lost her life to that playing blind. Without her intuition or this constant feeling that the maiden was feeling her stomach she would have kilt if she was naive. A woman should always trust her gut feeling because it could be the difference between life and death. But because the maiden was scored he exposed the groom in front of all of the guests at her wedding. Not only did she expose him but as she was telling the story she explained it in such a petty way. She constantly said to her groom “ My darling, I only dreamt this. “ every time the story began to climax. The bride wanted to embarrass the groom and expose him for the person he will is. The maiden strikes her revenge but not in anger and spiteful way but in a way that was thoughtfully planned out by being passive-aggressive and then going in for the killer. You can tell this was thought out because instead of leaving the suitor when she found out that he was murdered instead she played along and waited for the perfect moment to light the match to her fire. This embarrassed the suitor in front of everyone but she releished in exposing him after the fact.

       An English Nicholas Dunne returns home on his fifth wedding anniversary to discover his wife Amy has vanished. The news media covers her disappearance since Amy served as the model for her parents’ well-known Amazing Amy children’s books. Inadequately covered-up signs of a scuffle are discovered in the home by detective Rhonda Boney. Nick is a suspect in the media because of his lack of concern for Amy’s absence. Police find that the house is too spotless and decide to do a forensics analysis which leads them to blood splatter and bleach all around the living room and kitchen. While Nick is being looked at as guilty for killing his wife in reality all Amy planned was to frame her husband because he made her feel terrible about herself and she also caught him cheating on her with one of his students outside of a bar that she paid for that would allow him to run his own business. Not only does Amy go into hiding she also fakes her death, charges his credit cards, puts her blood all around the house then cleans it with bleach and plans a scavenger hunt for their anniversary but when she realizes her plan is failing apart she kills one of her ex-boyfriends that was obsessed with her so it looks like he had kidnapped her and she had to kill him to return home to “the husband that she loves”

       This plays into when a woman is done wrong she will stop caring about how she is perceived and push all limits to get revenge on the man that has wronged her. While watching the film you can see that Amy not only pushes psychological boundaries but even her physical abilities but taking a hammer to her eye and cutting herself along her arms so that can frame her husband all he did was make her feel bad and cheat. Amy was taking a gun into a knife fight because she was reacting to her emotions being at their highest peak. Along with lying throughout the film, Amy also strategically predicts the conduct of others and manipulates and controls that behavior. Amy is a tremendously smart person who makes effective use of her understanding of psychology despite being evil. Because Amy is so attractive and captivating, people frequently fall for her manipulations because they believe she is a decent person. Oddly, though, once Nick learns what his wife has done and grows enraged with her, he is successful in seducing his wife back to him through the statements he makes to the media. One thought eventually becomes louder than the others if we think about it for a long time: I’m going to make them pay. But the issue about revenge is that it’s more common to fantasize about it than to carry it out in reality. Amy in Gone Girl is different from everyday people in that she does the things she fantasizes about doing.

               Darnell Wright, the manager of a nightclub, is a playboy. He exchanges favors from ladies for club VIP treatment. Darnell believes he has found his ideal match when the stunning and affluent Brandi Web exits a limousine and enters the club. Brandi has warned him not to lead her on because she knows what will happen but he continues to string her along. With this, she continues to make his life hell and do anything known to man to make him not only stay with her but scare him into loving her. Darnell wakes up one morning to discover Brandi preparing breakfast in his kitchen. She asks him to hold her, but he firmly pushes her away. Brandi, however, doesn’t like being rejected. She transforms into an obsessive femme fatale, chasing him, removing all four wheels from his SUV to prevent him from making rounds, breaking his windshield, and setting fire to his nightclub. She repeatedly smashes a door on her arm, wounding herself, and smacks herself with a fruit-filled stocking to leave no visible bruises. Brandi continues to make his life hard and threatens to harm the woman that Darnell really loves Mia. Darenll goes to Brandi’s house to get her to stop and own up to his wrongdoings but things go south when Mia also arrives they then all end up in a big altercation and Brandi dies from a fall.  

          Brand’is intense feelings were the same as a person on drugs at a high. Brandi was deeply wounded and she was aware of how intense her emotions could get. She told Darnell but he continued to make advances. So once she fell in love and her infatuation became overbearing and scared him away. Brandi realized she was getting played and that ignited a fire in her. She stopped at nothing to get him back. But how she was trying to get him back with fear. She was using a tactic of “If I can’t have you no one will”.The saying “there is a thin line between love and hatred” refers to how sometimes it can be difficult to distinguish between loving and hating someone. Several people have also been in what is known as a “love-hate relationship,” in which the two persons involved have conflicted and frequently strong sentiments for one another. This shows when Brandi does every horrible thing to Darnell even tries to kill him but continues to tell him that she loves him and she will always be with him. 

       In conclusion, most women are guilty of these actions it may not have been to the same extent but it was the same emotions maybe even heightened. Women have to learn in order to move through life they have to give themselves grace, we can no longer speak from hate and insanity. From all of these examples, not one woman got their happily ever after they felt every single last emotion and gained nothing more but stress and even more hate. When these actions are reflected upon we do not focus on what the man has done to upset the woman but we focus on what the woman has done that now makes her seem as though she would be able to plead insanity! Instead, we should do the three-day rule, the three-day rule is when we reflect on something for three days then if we are still moved by it we can react but if not then we will simply move on. On the first day you will feel every bit of the emotion and way to react on the second day you will still be mad but to the extent of losing your logical thinking.  But on the third day, your feelings for the situation will have become water under the bridge but if it’s still affecting you deeply then you may speak on it at least by the third day you will have gathered your thoughts and be able to speak clearly and logically.